Happiness

something i borrowed from my facebook timeline

by Vitumbiko Dee M. Oswell (Notes) on Friday, 25 May 2012 at 19:59

we convince ourselves that life will be better once we are married,have a baby, then another. Then we get frustrated because our children are not old enough and that all will be well when they are older. Then we are frustrated because they reach adolescence and we must deal with them. Surely we will be happier when they grow out of their teen years.We tell ourselves our life will be better when our spouse gets his or her act together, when we have a nicer car, when we can take a vacation, when we retire finally.The truth is there is no better time to be happy than right now. If not, then when?your life will always be full of challenges. It is better to admit as much n decide to be happy inspite of it all. There is no road to happiness, happiness IS the road.Enjoy every moment. Stop waiting for school to end, for a return to school, to lose ten kilos,to gain ten kilos,for work to begin,to get married,for friday evening, for sunday morning, waiting for a new car,for the first or fifteen of the month, for spring,for summer,for winter, for fall, for your song to be played on the radio, to die.....before deciding to be HAPPY!!!